We are now in the last day of the second month of 2018. How you doin? How them resolutions of yours doin? Or are you going to postpone them yet again? Whatever it is, I wish you all well. As for me, I have no resolution whatsoever or just one which not to color my hair anymore. So far I've done great.
When talking about having resolutions or setting goals. We must first look at ourselves and ask 'why'? Why are we setting up these goals? why are we having these resolutions? If it is because other people are having them and you just want to be in trend, then just write them resolutions and goals on a piece of paper and throw it in the trash.
Next before we set up goals, we must look at ourselves again and ask "Can I'? Because only you who knows what you're capable of (other than having moral supports from other people) it is you who knows the real you. So don't set up unrealistic goals when you don't even have the capability to do even 1% of it. Try to set short term goal first and from there, see if you're able to achieve them and if you can, you can start to set a bigger goal. It is always good to start small (in whatever cases if you know what I mean *wink*).
Next, keep track on the progress. Always have a plan on how to get your resolutions and goals met! Meaning, plan it out nicely and see the blueprint of your goals. The concept is building a house, you need a blueprint so you'll know what you're doing right? Same goes to achieving your goals, track on the progress and see if you need extra help or if you need to do it differently or what is your back up plan if your boyfriend dumps you (talking about a friend).
Last but not least, always live your life to the fullest. It's good to have goals and what not and to focus on it but just don't overlook the other things in life. Sometimes enjoying the present is much more meaningful than overworked yourself for the future. You get me?
So yeah, how's your resolutions going?
P/S: We can choose to be happy but why we choose to be sad? Future made us!